The MPRE Attorney Ethics Exam...What Happens if you Pass?

   Okay, this is an oldie, but I was reminded of  something from my law school days over this past weekend when my  oldest daughter, who is in her second year of law school, sat for the MPRE, know to the non-lawyer crowd as the Multistate Professional Responsibility Exam, or, in plain English- the ethics exam.

   I can see it as if yesterday, though it was more like 32 years ago, when, standing in the family kitchen, I told my non-lawyer brother, nine years my senior, that I was going to take the MPRE down at the University of Miami.  Without so much as a pause, he responded, “What happens if you pass?”

    Even more than three decades ago, questionable lawyer ethics tainted the profession.  I must say, that after practicing for all these years, it never ceases to amaze me at the lengths some of my, ugh, I shudder to use the term, “colleagues” and fellow members of the bar, will go through to circumvent that Code of Professional Responsibility that each attorney   pledges to adhere to when he/she is sworn into the Bar.  Actually, let’s be real.  Many of my (ugh) “colleagues” don’t even both to try and circumvent these cannons of ethics; they just downright engage in unethical practices.

    Needless to say, I passed that exam (as one must to become admitted to the Bar) and became a lawyer. Then again, so did all of the other attorneys who I regularly see disregard just about any and every cannon of ethic to which we are sworn to subscribe. 

     So what is going wrong?  First, the MPRE tests whether one has learned the ethical rules.  It does not measure an individual’s moral barometer as to whether the soon-to-be lawyer will actually put these rules into practice.  Second, it just seems that too many lawyers are willing to do anything to “win,” no matter what the cost-and that becomes their personal moral code.  Third, it is, at least at first blush, easier to break the rules than to follow them.  Some attorneys are just plain lazy.  After all, if you can take a shortcut and get to the golf course, well….what’s the difference?

    Please understand some of my colleagues   are extremely ethical, moral and honest, and have the highest integrity.  As with so many other things in life, it is those bad apples that ruin the bunch.

  

    Is there a solution?  For one, maybe attorneys should be required to take an ethics exam after they are admitted to practice at some predetermined period of time, say every ten years.  You know, sort of like a driver’s license re-test.  Maybe someone who is tech savvy can develop an app that does, in fact, measure a person’s ethical barometer.  If anyone knows someone who has the technical know-how, please get them in touch with me.

  

   Beyond that, the bottom line is ethics cannot be taught to 20 somethings; ethics   must be learned, and if those law students did not learn honesty and integrity from the playground in their youth, no course is going to teach it now and no exam is going to test it.

   

   Of course, I am keeping my fingers crossed that my daughter “passed” the MPRE, but I know doing the right thing was instilled in her long ago.   Like her mom, she won’t “win” every case (and any lawyer who tells you he does hasn’t been practicing very long); but if she follows my footsteps into family law,( or really any area of law) then, also like her mom, she will  always try to do the right thing, and that is always something I can promise my clients.  There is no win or amount of money that can take the place of sleeping at night.  So, to my brother, I say, this is what happens when you pass…32 years later I’m still doing the right thing, but then again you knew that…we grew up in the same house.

Cindy Vova
Law Office of Cindy S. Vova, P.A.
Plantation, FL 33322
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Alimony Reform in Florida- Solve for X

     For the past few years I felt compelled to write about the pending alimony reform in Florida law.  So  years ago I kept updating information as  the House and Senate bills wound their ways through the legislature…only to end up on Governor Scott’s desk, and be dealt, in the 11^th hour…and I do mean the 11^th hours, a death delivered by the governor’s veto pen.

Now, last year, none of the state’s legislators even presented a bill.  Why (in case you may be asking)?

      Simple answer….it was an election year. And no matter what side you may be on regarding the alimony reform issue, any seasoned politician knows, you’re going to alienate half of the electorate regardless of the position you take.

So here we are in 2016.  Although it may be a national  election year, it is not a state election year.  So once again, the Florida House and the Florida Senate came to a consensus, and passed mirror bills, that now sit somewhere close to Governor Scott’s Desk.   

     Now, I could begin to outline all of the changes this bill presents, and give you the formula that, if the bill is not vetoed by the governor, will be used by the Florida courts to calculate alimony, a combination of certain variances of percentages, the difference between the gross incomes of the two parties and the number of years of marriage.  But why do that…. This bill could end up with its predecessor…in the proverbial legislative trash basket.

     And don’t get me started…I’ve not even told you about the “pork” part of the bills, where courts are going to start with the “premise” of 50/50 time sharing for a parties’ offspring.  Oh yes, do feel free to look up the definition of premise and send me the definition you find.  Should this bill become law, I could surely use some input in the definition of this word because I am sure I will spend much time arguing the definition, as it may be applicable, depending on the position I may take for a specific client.

     If and when the bill becomes law…and we will know pretty soon, then we can start solving for X, but then again, this is law, and when it comes to law nothing is a given, no matter how many formulas exist.

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Cindy Vova
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Plantation, FL 33322
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Valentine's Day- Did You Get Your Heart On?

As I write this, there are only a few hours remaining of February 14, 2016. So in these fleeting hours of Valentine's Day, I was contemplating how many relationships got their "hearts on" and how many relationships got their "hearts off." First, let's start with the reality check. Contrary to popular opinion, Valentine's Day is NOT a Hallmark Moment, nor one created by candy companies. My (very brief) research reveals the holiday had its origins with the Feast of Lupercalia, an ancient Roman Festival that may have something to do with the beginning of the bird mating season. Now I don't know what you did today, but I spent most of the day outside in glorious south Florida weather, but I didn't see even one pair of mating birds. The holiday evolved due to the efforts and daring of a priest named Valentine. The story goes that during the reign of Emperor Claudius II Rome was involved in several bloody and unpopular campaigns. Claudius found it tough to get soldiers and felt the reason was men did not join army because they did not wish to leave their wives and families. As a result Claudius cancelled all marriages and engagements in Rome. A romantic at heart (which is about the extent of a priest's ability to be romantic) Saint Valentine defied Claudius's unjustified order. Along with Saint Marius, St Valentine secretly married couples. When his defiance was discovered, Valentine was brutally beaten and put to death on February 14, about 270 AD. After his death Valentine was named a Saint. There are a few other variations on this theme, but, unfortunately, all of the ending go the same way, where Valentine meets an untimely demise. Sort of makes you want to just go out there and party with your honey, doesn't it? So here's the point. Love isn't about Valentine's Day. If you thought your significant other was going to make amends by showering you with candy, flowers and (my favorite) jewelry, and that these (truly) insignificant trinkets on one day would make up for he/she not showing love to you the other 364 days (365 this year as it is a leap year), you are sorely mistaken. What's the point? If you enjoyed Valentine's Day with your honey, then excellent. Good going. But if your day was something less than you expected, it's time to reevaluate your whole relationship. Love is not something celebrated only on holidays...not said as eloquently as Shakespeare, but what do you want from me...I'm a lawyer, not a poet. You have to work on love. If you don't want to work on it, love won't last. If you've worked on it and your significant other will not...it won't last. So the moral of this story...it take two to get their hearts on! If that doesn't work then we can help you get your heart off. Cindy Vova Law Offices of Cindy S. Vova, P.A. 8551 West Sunrise Blvd., Suite 301 Plantation, FL 33322 info@vovalaw.com 954-316-3496 Learn more about my practice at http://www.vovalaw.com

Powerball Play Odds--How to Win the Lotto in Divorce in South Florida

In less than 12 hours somebody ( or somebodies) could become a billionaire and a half (That's another $500,000,000, in case you were counting). Of course, that's before Uncle Sam takes his share, but who are we kidding, there'd still be plenty to go around. Yes, at 10:59 tonight, this country's richest Powerball Jackpot will be up for grabs. Of course, your odds of winning, according to the statisticians, is 292.2 million to 1. So there's a staggeringly low chance you who are reading this blog are going to be the winner. But I could be wrong. Still, there is a much, much greater chance that you will, at some time in your life, get divorced (assuming you are married to begin with- since the only way to totally avoid divorce is not to marry in the first place). Yup, according to those statisticians again, your odds of divorcing are 50/50. Now, I am sure you'd rather have the deck stacked that way for tonight's drawing, but hey, we can all fantasize. But let's go with the fantasy for a moment. It's free, so what the heck. You look at the numbers and, on your last ticket- you got it, Powerball and all. Now, if your marriage sucked before the drawing, is it going to be any better afterwards? Let me share a secret with you---the answer is a resounding "no." Although money can solve some problems, it is not the cure-all for a bad marriage. The only thing that a lotto win brings to a couple on the brink of divorce is more money they have to fight about. So how does one win the lotto in divorce? First, although the odds are better of getting a divorce than winning the lotto, so are the odds of staying married. Try that first...communicate, and don't think winning the lotto will cure a bad marriage. Second, if divorce is inevitable, plan ahead. It is not a bad idea to consult with a Broward, Palm Beach or Miami-Dade divorce attorney before you actually decide to file for divorce. Remember that adage, "failing to plan, is planning to fail." You don't want to be caught short changed, literally and figuratively. Third, save up some funds. Couples splitting up often find themselves short of funds. Clearly, two people, or a family, can live more cost effectively in one home than two. Two homes will come in a divorce, sometimes sooner than later, so it is a good idea to have a reserve fund on hand. Also, you will need to retain an attorney, and, contrary to popular belief, practicing law is not a hobby to most of us. Although the spouse with less income can request that the wealthier spouse pay fees, most attorneys will not work without at least a good faith retainer to begin a case. Fourth, remember, time is money. That means, the more you fight, the more it costs both your spouse and you. So many issues can be resolved in significantly less time if the parties try to cooperate and timely provide documents that are requested, be straightforward, leave pettiness out and remember that the kids are not objects to be fought over. Fifth, chose your attorney wisely. Attorneys are often referred to as "counselors at law." Well, in the family law arena, that counselor role frequently goes beyond legal counsel. Check references, ask friends for referrals, read reviews (understanding that there may be the "odd" review where somebody was not happy- but make sure that's the exception and not the rule), talk to the attorney. Does the person sound like you are the "next in line" at the deli, or does the attorney seem like someone you could work with and rely on. Sixth, try to give your spouse the advice in #5 above. Truly, sometimes clients come to me, and when they tell me the attorney their spouses have hired, I up my retainer because I know that the opposing counsel is not easy to work with, will not have documents to me on time, I can't trust them ( an, unfortunately, growing number) and they know the more they do-and I mean the unnecessary things- the more they make. Okay, so I confess, I wanted to give this blog a snappy and timely title. There is no lotto to win in divorce.(though sometimes it seems closer with a good result) But, if you follow the steps above, the process can be a lot smoother, a lot less expensive, a lot less stressful, and the aftermath will leave you with some money to buy a few more tickets for the next Powerball. And, on the 292.2 million off chance that I win tonight, no worries, I'll be here tomorrow to take care of my clients and make sure their cases are handled and resolved. But I might take a little longer vacation next time. For everyone else, go on, be the eternal optimist. But you'll still be in the same position tomorrow, no lotto win, and the same marriage, good or bad. If it's the latter and you're in Broward, Palm Beach or Miami-Dade Counties in Florida, let me know if I can help you. Cindy Vova Law Offices of Cindy S. Vova, P.A. 8551 West Sunrise Blvd., Suite 301 Plantation, FL 33322 954-316-3496 info@vovalaw.com Visit our website: www.vovalaw.com

NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTIONS…OR HOW TO LOSE AT LEAST 100 POUNDS

With the celebrations of the last two weekends now behind us, it is time to get down to the serious business of 2016…a new year. Customarily, we all make some New Year’s resolutions, whether in the form of a literal or mental list, of things we want to do and things we want to change in the New Year. Statistically, though, most of these resolutions are broken within the first 30 days. One of the top ten resolutions made each year is to lose weight. This is where I can help because, for over 30 years my clients, on average, have lost over 100 pounds! This is what I commonly call the “Divorce Diet,” where shedding an unwanted spouse, almost without exception, also allows you to lose upwards of 100 pounds. Before starting this diet, however, as with any weight loss program, it is highly suggested that you consult your doctor. In this case, however, my suggestion is that the type of doctor you consult is a psychologist, because going through a divorce is going to put a lot of stress on your head as well as your heart. Of course, there are side effects as well, where the stress of going through a divorce frequently results in my clients truly losing weight from their own bodies, and then there is the resultant need to get a new wardrobe, have cosmetic surgery and start new lives…because, yes, there IS life after divorce. Now, hopefully you appreciated the sardonic humor in my “Divorce Diet.” Truly, I am not advocating that anyone try to lose weight with the aforementioned method. In fact, as we begin a new year, it is a good time to assess your relationships and count the blessing for what you have and what you can do individually, and as a couple, to make your relationship stronger. That may even mean going to see one of those “doctors” mentioned above, and hey, healing the mind is as important as healing the body. On the other hand, if you take the time to assess your marriage, or have already taken the time prior to the beginning of the year to do this and, after deep soul searching, truly believe that, to quote Humpty Dumpty, “All the king’s horses and all the king’s men” can’t put your marriage together again, then 2016 is the best time to move forward and move on. If the marriage can’t get better it will only go south, and not too many people want to go in that direction. So, as you return to your normal routine this week, think about that resolution list. You may not be able to keep all the resolutions you made, but if moving on from a bad marriage, remember you don’t have to do it alone. Here’s to what I hope will be a good year for all, with or without a weight loss program! -Cindy S. Vova Law Office of Cindy S. Vova, P.A. 8551 West Sunrise Blvd. Suite 301 Plantation, FL 33322 954.316.3496 info@vovalaw.com